《35岁以前成功的12条黄金法则》.doc

《３５岁以前成功的１２条黄金法则》／王大庆著／新华出版社

第一章:一个目标

    人与人之间根本差别并不是天赋、机遇，而在于有无目标。
    成功是用目标的阶梯搭就的。1.你为什么是穷人？第一点就是
    你没有立下成为富人的目标成功是用目标的阶梯搭就的。
    所谓成功，就是实现既定的目标。所以，成功的第一步，从设立目标开始。
    小时候总羡慕大人们能够挣工资，梦想着自己长大后也能像大人一样每月拿到几十块的工资。随着年纪的增长，我渐渐地发现，只拿工资，平安此生，并不是我的终极目标。于是，我下海进行自己的事业拼搏。
    在自己多年的打拼过程中，我发现只有那些不满足现状的人，才能真正成为富翁。
    如果你已习惯朝九晚五的上班族生活，整天上班、下班，日复一日，任凭岁月消逝，而且满足于这种状态，那么你一定成不了富翁。一个积极想要赚钱的人，绝不以温饱为满足，一定想要让生活多彩多姿，天天充满赚钱的活力。具备了这个要件，再冷、再热的天气，再苦、再累的工作，你都会心甘情愿地去做，而当你养成了这个赚钱“习惯”后，财富自然愈来愈多。
    你能想象在10年后20年后30年后，你还得如此辛劳为生活在打拼吗？所以，在年轻时期，你一定要使自己充满成功、致富的欲望。
    只有那些不满足现状的人，才能真正成为富翁。20多年来，中国的商业取得了极大的发展，这是多么大的社会进步。人们从最早看不起那些个体户，从嫉妒他们到羡慕他们，人人都想做个有钱的人。金钱不是罪恶，罪恶在使用的它的人。金钱是财富的表现形式，能给人们带来美好的生活。从小平提出让一部分人先富起来，到进入小康社会，到达到中等发达国家水平，这一切全是由金钱（GDP）作为衡量标志的。
    美国作家泰勒·G·希克斯在其所着《职业外创收术》中指出，金钱可以使人们在12个方面生活得更美好：
    1）物质财富；
    2）娱乐；
    3）教育；
    4）旅游；
    5）医疗；
    6）退休后的经济保障；
    7）朋友；
    8）更强的信心；
    9）更充分地享受生活；
    10）更自由地表达自我；
    11）激发你取得更大成就；
    12）提供从事公益事业的机会。
    但是在现实生活中，真正成为有钱的人还是少数，大多数人还是很失意。
    有什么别有病，没什么别没钱有钱的人是怎样取得财富的呢？他们比你富一千倍，就能说明他们比你聪明一千倍吗？绝对不是。现代科学表明，人的资质相差不多，人之间的差异也是在后天造成的。想想看，你的中小学同学、大学同学，毕业时大家起点一样，而过了五年、十年、十五年后，同学再聚会时，你会发现大家各不相同，有的人开着奔驰、宝马、沃尔沃，有的人开着帕萨特、宝莱，而有的人骑着自行车，大家的差距由此可见。你能认为同学之间的智力差距就能真差那么多吗？绝对不是！我认为人生成功的关键就是人生目标的确立。
    我知道一个小男孩立志成功的故事。
    小男孩的父亲是位马术师，他从小就必须跟着父亲东奔西跑，一个马厩接着一个马厩，一个农场接着一个农场地去训练马匹。由于经常四处奔波，男孩的求学过程并不顺利。

"35-year-old former successful 12 golden rules" / Wang Daqing forward / Xinhua Publishing House

Chapter I: A target

    The fundamental difference between people is not talent, opportunity, but rather whether the target.
    Success is a ladder with the objective take on the. 1. Why are you poor? The first point is
    You do not set a goal of success is the rich target take on the ladder.
    Success is achieving the set goals. Therefore, the success of the first step, starting from the set goals.
    The total child the envy of people can earn large wages grow up dreaming of their own as adults can get dozens of pieces per month as wages. As she grew older, I gradually discovered, take only the wage, peace in this life, not my ultimate goal. So I put out to sea to fight their cause.
    In the course of their years of hard work, I found that only those not satisfied with the status quo in order to really become rich.
    If you are used to nine to five office workers living the day to work, work, day after day, despite of the passage, but also to meet in this state, you certainly can not become rich. A positive person who wants to make money, not to food and clothing to meet, some want to make life colorful, full of money-making activity every day. With this element, then cold, then hot weather, however hard, No matter how tired of work, you will willingly do, and when you develop this to make money "habit", the wealth of nature more and more.
    Can you imagine in 10 years 20 years 30 years, you have to work hard so hard to live in it? Therefore, in the young period, you must make your full success, the desire to get rich.
    Only those not satisfied with the status quo in order to really become rich. 20 years, China has achieved great commercial development, which is how much social progress. People look down on those self-employed from the earliest, from jealousy to envy them their, everyone wants to be a rich man. Money is not evil, evil people in the use of it. Money is the manifestation of wealth, can bring people a better life. From Deng Xiaoping proposed to let some people get rich, to enter the well-off society, to achieve the level of moderately developed countries, all entirely by money (GDP) as a measure of signs.
    G · American writer Taylor Hicks in his book "income-generating employment outside the surgery," points out that money can make people more beautiful aspects of life in 12:
    1) material wealth;
    2) entertainment;
    3) education;
    4) tourism;
    5) medical care;
    6) financial security after retirement;
    7) friends;
    8) more confidence;
    9) enjoy life more fully;
    10) more freedom to express themselves;
    11) inspire you to greater success;
    12) to provide opportunities for engaging in public welfare undertakings.
    But in real life, truly wealthy people are still a minority, most people are frustrated.
    What do sick, no other money to the rich wealth how to obtain it? They are rich a thousand times than you can explain them to you a thousand times smarter than you? Absolutely not. Modern science shows that people's qualifications are very similar, the difference between the result is the day after tomorrow. Think about your primary and secondary students, university students, graduates, like when you start, but after five, ten, fifteen years later, the students get together again, you will find all different, some people hold the Mercedes-Benz, BMW, Volvo, and some people driving the Passat, Bora, while others rode bicycles, all of the gap can be seen. You can think of the intellectual gap between students will be able to really poor so much? Absolutely not! I think the key to success in life is to set life goals.
    I know a young boy determined to success stories.
    The little boy's father was a horse trainer, a child, he must run around with her father, a barn and then a barn, a farm next to a farm to train horses. As always rushing around, the boy's school career.